As I sat thinking during his funeral I kept replaying the last few conversations we had. You'll look up after a while and realize you're there. Dima~ 2 months ago. May 10, 2020 #1 So I finally got a runaan which is really good for me but when I enchanted it on the enchant table because I’m impatient and I really wanted enchants I got punch 2. Regret … perhaps I could have been an Olympian”. We have so many things we want to do in life yet never do. Regret is a critical way of thinking or feeling in which you blame yourself for things that happened. Did I love? 2 months ago. You may not have as much as someone else but you can and you will if you do something about it. Nobody said, “I regret that I got cancer”, because nobody chooses to contract the disease, therefore it’s not technically a regret. Fast-forward another 18 years, and I will be in the second half of my career and my kids will be out of the house. You have every opportunity to make the most of the life you have right now. #muppet”, “#TossUp between joining the Jehovah’s Witnesses at 14 & living in a high-control group for years - OR - not seeing Patrick Swayze in Guys & Dolls”. I can tell you from personal experience that chasing your dreams is hard work. During those ten minutes my boyfriend convinced me to go ahead with it. There are many days when you want to quit. Believe it or not, a lot of our biggest regrets in life have to do with things that happened to us in grade 4 or some other early age. Ten minutes! The best thing you can do is to take it one day at a time. The damage, trauma and pain came from a range of different circumstances, but the “regret” in all of them seemed to be the same – that the survivor hadn’t spoken up sooner. More than once. As I made big changes in my life one way I measured my progress was comparing my results to what others were doing. Not bad things happening to you, or the way that life has punched you in the face: regret is a deep sorrow about something you did, or something you failed to do. Part of HuffPost Wellness. Never regret a day in your life, “Good day gives you joy while a bad day gives you experience”. Did I matter?" Likewise if you regret the life you’ve lived and you kill yourself then you will die having lived nothing but a regrettable life. Thanks for the watch! They wish they hadn’t made decisions based on what other people think 0. Wasted years worrying about it”, “Worrying. Also – a lot of lessons to be learned here: “My regret: Going to the office Christmas party and then having to look for a new job the next day … Not my fault the boss’s wife turned out to be more than just a flirt”. And most of the replies divided into six specific categories. 7. Your journey is your journey and shouldn't be compared. Joined Apr 16, 2020 Messages 1,074 Reactions 345. jasafarid. 4. Ten minutes to choose whether I wanted to change my life. His death was a wake up call and started me on a journey where I lost 165 pounds, moved from Milwaukee, Wisconsin to our dream designation of Maui, Hawaii. If you can't control jealousy you'll definitely live a life of regret. Come to the end of your life with a smile on your face knowing that you have no regrets. Every day is a gift and we should live each day as if it were the last. The greatest regret is that I am not prepared to die. These are three of the darkest emotions any human will ever experience. “Too scared to risk failing at something I loved, so I succeeded at something I had no passion for”, “Not following my dream to work in radio”, “Listening to my dad when he said my voice was too weak to be a singer”. Don’t even think about it | Oliver Burkeman. Thread starter Monkeyking100; Start date May 10, 2020; Monkeyking100 Well-Known Member. Start today and you won't die with regret in your heart. ... followed by ill-fitting career choices. The truth is that a) we all try to make the best decisions possible using the information available at the time, and b) we all mess up. y 20-year-old son just moved into a fraternity house at his college in the US. The tweet “I regret allowing depression and anxiety to rule my life since teen years” could have been reframed as “I have a mental illness against which I have felt powerless since my teens”. Biggest regret – not listening at school”, At last, here was one tiny area I could be useful … I retweeted her words and asked Twitter if they could help. Take risks – they may go wrong but it’s better than regretting not having tried. Starting tomorrow. Having left school before her exams and worked for 38 years in a job she doesn’t enjoy, she’s using this moment as a chance to address the regret, and has just bought her fourth book …, “The last 20 years have been particularly bad, no one should wake up dreading the day ahead, I thought it was all I could do, but maybe not …”. Very few replies were lighthearted – though I loved the ones that were …, “Being sick in my father-in-law’s hand”, “Not flying on Concorde to New York with Lionel Richie. It was encouraging that right alongside the people who regretted a life lived in fear were others who had made a change – now regretting the time it had taken to find their solution for this exact problem: “Taking far too long to realise that everyone else in the world is also imperfect and winging it – just like me”, “Worrying too much about what other people thought of me – trying to uphold what I thought were their beliefs not mine”, “I regret not getting antidepressants 20 years earlier”, “Being scared all the time. I can deal with most of my other regrets in life but am having a hard time dealing with this one." Ask: Did I live life like I am now was a shock critical way thinking. 'S not going to be easy and it will take time but it help... €œDidn’T know I could have been message: we are what we chose to 2. Friends or family about changes we 're afraid to throw things away that we do n't hold back you. 10, 2020 Messages 1,074 Reactions 345 can’t get out of is all the time have. 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